Retinol, Tretinoin, and the Art of Trusting the Process
- Ashley Chaffee
- Dec 12, 2025
- 3 min read
Why You Need Retinol
(Yes, You. Even If You’re “Scared of It”)
Let’s get this out of the way immediately:
Retinol is not just for wrinkles. It’s for acne, texture, pores, pigmentation, glow, and preventing future skin regret.
If skincare had a main character, retinol would be it. 💅
What Retinol Actually Does (Without the Science Lecture)
Retinol (and its stronger cousin, tretinoin) belongs to the Vitamin A family, aka the overachievers of skincare.
It helps your skin:✨ Speed up cell turnover✨ Make more collagen✨ Unclog pores✨ Smooth texture✨ Fade dark spots✨ Age… slower (politely)
Think of retinoids as training your skin to behave, not punishing it.
Retinol vs Tretinoin (Rx): What’s the Difference?
This is where people spiral — so let’s simplify.
🌿 Over-the-Counter Retinol
Best for beginners
Needs to be converted by your skin to work
Slower, gentler results
Less irritation
Perfect if you’re:
New to retinoids
Sensitive
Just trying to level up skin quality
👉 A great starting point: The Ordinary Retinol 0.2%

💊 Prescription Tretinoin
The gold standard
Already active (no conversion needed)
Stronger + faster results
Clinically proven for acne, aging, and pigmentation
If you can get an Rx — do it. It’s honestly very easy. Just ask your provider.
Pro tips:
Get the cream version (more gentle than gel)
Start at 0.025%
Stronger is NOT better in the beginning
Start Low and Slow — TRUST ME 😌
I cannot stress this enough.
Start:
Low strength
Low frequency
Small amount
Trust me. Do not rush the process or you can cause:
Excessive dryness
Sensitivity
Flaking that no amount of moisturizer can save
Ask me how I know. 😐
Retinoids are powerful. Your skin needs time to adapt. Consistency > intensity. Always.
How to Apply Retinol (The Right Way)
🧴 The Retinol Sandwich Method
This method saves your skin barrier while still getting results.
How to do it:
Cleanse
Apply your hydrating serums
Apply a thin layer of moisturizer
Apply a pea-sized amount of retinol or tretinoin
Apply a thick moisturizer

What I recommend! Soothing, and helps repair the skin barrier. LINK, I might earn a commission. When starting out, seal it all in with La Roche-Posay Cicaplast Baume B5
Yes, it sounds extra. Yes, it works.
Apply retinol after all your serums, always on completely dry skin.

“Why Does My Skin Look Worse???” 😭
Ah yes. The part where everyone panics.
Your Skin Might Get Worse Before It Gets Better
Totally normal.
In the first 2–6 weeks, you may notice:
Dryness
Flaking
Redness
Small breakouts
This doesn’t mean it’s “not working.”It means your skin is adjusting to faster cell turnover.
Acne Purge Explained (Don’t Freak Out)
A purge happens when retinoids push existing clogged pores to the surface faster.
Purging usually:
Happens where you normally break out
Looks like whiteheads or small pimples
Resolves faster than normal acne
Lasts 4–8 weeks
Retinoids are not creating new acne — they’re clearing what was already there.
Sensitivity vs Purging — Know the Difference 👀
If you’re experiencing sensitivity — slow down.
Signs:
Burning or stinging
Raw or sore skin
Intense redness
Peeling that won’t calm down
👉 Reduce frequency. Moisturize more. Take a night off. Slowing down does NOT mean failure.
If you’re purging — keep going.
Signs:
Breakouts in usual areas
Pimples that come and go quickly
Texture changing before it improves
👉 Stay consistent. This phase passes.
Rule of thumb:
Sensitivity = damage → slow down
Purging = adjustment → continue
How Long Until You See Results?
⏳ Weeks 1–4: Adjustment phase (be patient)⏳ Weeks 6–12: Acne calms, texture improves⏳ 3–6 months: Glow. Smoothness. Compliments.
Retinol is a long game — but it pays dividends.
Final Thoughts 💫
You don’t need:❌ The strongest retinoid❌ Daily use right away❌ To suffer for results
You need: ✅ A low strength✅ A good moisturizer✅ Patience✅ Sunscreen (non-negotiable ☀️)
The Takeaway
Retinol isn’t scary. Bad retinol advice is.
Start low. Go slow. Moisturize like it’s your job. Use Sunscreen.
Your future skin will thank you 💋✨
#Tretinoin, Retinol, Skin Purging, Purge, wrinkles, acne, Vitamin A


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